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   02-18-2006, 4:31 PM
Giusi-gurL is online. Last active: 7/24/2010 2:36:56 PM Giusi-gurL



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 Alyssa Jones wrote:

dear no doubt forumers,

when your internet friends exceed your real friends it's time to turn off the computer and rethink how you are living your life.

hrmm. i dunno. i disagree with that. i have a lot of friends here. but i have lots of internet friends too.  internet people are real. hell, i'm real and have feelings..so, i'm assuming other people are too. 

i remember having penpals growing up.. they were people i never met either.. but they were still my friends and important to me.

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sorry, my two cents. :D


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   02-18-2006, 4:35 PM
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   02-18-2006, 4:37 PM
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Dear No Doubt Forumer

I thank you too much for all you have done for me. You were there throught my best and worst times, and you always helped me out, no matter how much of an a hole I was being. I really can't say anything else- because nothing can explain how greatful I am to have met you on this forum *cries* (:

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I think you should leave because you never stop bullying everyone...especially me! /:

 

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   02-18-2006, 4:38 PM
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Hehe that is totally how I feel. For some reason, internet friends aren't REAL friends...people disconnect them from reality. But they ARE real. I also don't think it's all that dangerous to meet people online. I mean if you meet your cybering partner after a few weeks in a dark alley...you're an idiot. But really, meeting an online person in real life is just like meeting someone else in real life, you just have to make sure you don't give them your complete trust; it's the same as if you were meeting a stranger. Then you can analyze the situation and test the waters....

But yea...I'm not saying this because I'm online a lot, which I am....(I DO have more real life friends than online friends I think)...

When Zach still came here, right before he left, he said something like he respects me but he doesn't consider me a friend at all. And it was so weird because we had completely different feelings about it...I had considered him a friend of sorts...he said he felt no connection...and it only came out then.


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   02-18-2006, 4:41 PM
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Hahaha, it says a lot about me that I'm more curious about who the mean messages are for than the nice messages.

Dear No Doubt Forumer:

I can not believe how incredibly well-together you are.  Especially at your age.  I think you've got a bright mind and a bright future.  And you're a cutie.



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   02-18-2006, 4:42 PM
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Hahaha, it says a lot about me that I'm more curious about who the mean messages are for than the nice messages.

Dear No Doubt Forumer:

I can not believe how incredibly well-together you are.  Especially at your age.  I think you've got a bright mind and a bright future.  And you're a cutie.

I WOULD say but...

lol



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   02-18-2006, 4:43 PM
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When Zach still came here, right before he left, he said something like he respects me but he doesn't consider me a friend at all. And it was so weird because we had completely different feelings about it...I had considered him a friend of sorts...he said he felt no connection...and it only came out then.

Zach was cool, but was far too cerebral, and I was put off by it.

I think if you try and split your "Internet friends" and "real friends" you're just gonna make something already complicated into something unmanageable and somebody, most likely you, will get hurt.

So yeah. It's not "internet" or "real" that matters - but "friend".


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   02-18-2006, 4:44 PM
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The only real friends I have are probably online friends. I don't have friends in person because I am so shy.


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   02-18-2006, 4:47 PM
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okay dont twist my words... if you read my whole post you'd see that I clearly find someone I met online to be a real friend (well, much more but you get my point).... It's just that you need people who you can see and spend time with on a daily basis too. Crying into your keyboard isnt nearly as comforting as crying on someone's shoulder. And some people lack that completely....

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   02-18-2006, 4:49 PM
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haha... i forgot some...

Dear Forumer, i think you're quite clever and funny. I always look forward to your posts.

Dear Forumer, you're a hypocrit.

Dear Forumer, I want to stick a dirty sock in her mouth and kick her out the door. ;) lol



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   02-18-2006, 4:58 PM
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 Alyssa Jones wrote:
okay dont twist my words... if you read my whole post you'd see that I clearly find someone I met online to be a real friend (well, much more but you get my point).... It's just that you need people who you can see and spend time with on a daily basis too. Crying into your keyboard isnt nearly as comforting as crying on someone's shoulder. And some people lack that completely....

Tis true.

Telling someone your emotions is absolutely not the same as typing them /:



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   02-18-2006, 5:12 PM
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Video conferencing is fabulous.  ;))))))

But seriously.. i'm not arguing with you. It's ok that you think that. I was only saying that i disagree with that... One of my best friends moved away to the states and we basically only talk via internet for the past 4 years.. so, does that lessen our friendship?  Or is it still ok because we knew eachother first..?  You see what i'm getting at? 

Friendships are friendships.. regardless of what the circumstances are. That's my take on it.

Mind you, some of my friends here leave a lot to be desired. 

I still have good friends, true friends, social friends.. etc. and it's great! I'm very social and i enjoy hanging out with them all. But i still value my online friends.. and i would hope they valued my friendship as well. i'm not just sitting on here talking to a box letting out my feelings.. so, i hope it's not all in vain. :X

 

 


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   02-18-2006, 5:15 PM
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 Giusi-gurL wrote:

Video conferencing is fabulous.  ;))))))

But seriously.. i'm not arguing with you. It's ok that you think that. I was only saying that i disagree with that... One of my best friends moved away to the states and we basically only talk via internet for the past 4 years.. so, does that our lessen our friendship?  Or is it still ok because we knew eachother first..?  You see what i'm getting at? 

Friendships are friendships.. regardless of what the circumstances are. That's my take on it.

Mind you, some of my friends here leave a lot to be desired. 

I still have good friends, true friends, social friends.. etc. and it's great! I'm very social and i enjoy hanging out with them all. But i still value my online friends.. and i would hope they valued my friendship as well. i'm not just sitting on here talking to a box letting out my feelings.. so, i hope it's not all in vain. :X

 

 

I agree! :)




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   02-18-2006, 5:18 PM
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Dear Forumer:

 your pink dancing bunny freaks me out sometimes. lol




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   02-18-2006, 5:23 PM
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okay, you're still twisting....you are implying that I am saying that internet friends dont hold the same quality. That isnt what I said. I said if youre internet friends EXCEED your real friends then you need to evaluate the way you are spending your life.

I never said anything to devalue internet friendships or communicating on the internet... my point is that when the interent becomes the existance of your entire social life that can be a problem.



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